The Do’s and Don’ts of Funeral Procession Etiquette

✅ DO:
1. Yield the Right of Way

Funeral processions usually have legal right-of-way in most states, even at stop signs and red lights (provided law enforcement or escort vehicles are present). When you see a procession approaching, the respectful and appropriate thing to do is to safely pull over and allow it to pass.

2. Watch for Escort Vehicles

Police motorcycles or cars with flashing lights often escort processions. They may stop traffic at intersections or wave cars through red lights. Pay attention to their signals and guidance.

3. Keep the Noise Down

If you are near a funeral procession, especially at a stoplight or passing by, lower your music and avoid any loud or distracting behavior. Silence speaks volumes in these moments.

4. Be Patient and Stay Aware

It might delay your trip by a few minutes, but showing patience is a meaningful gesture. Take the moment to reflect or simply honor the people passing by.

5. Let the Whole Procession Pass

Even if there are gaps between vehicles, allow the entire procession to continue together. Cutting in can separate families and create confusion.

❌ DON’T:
1. Cut Into the Procession

Trying to squeeze into a procession line is not only dangerous but also incredibly disrespectful. These vehicles are traveling together for a purpose.

2. Honk or Express Frustration

Even if you're in a hurry, honking or expressing impatience is inappropriate and can cause distress for the mourners.

3. Tailgate the Hearse or Other Vehicles

If you're not part of the procession, avoid following closely. Allow space so the procession can move at its own respectful pace.

4. Speed Around or Weave Through

Never try to get around a funeral procession by darting between vehicles or passing aggressively. It's unsafe and highly disrespectful.

A Community That Cares

Here in Elgin and the surrounding communities, we take pride in the way we support each other. One of the simplest but most profound ways to show care is by honoring the journey of a funeral procession with courtesy and respect.

At Symonds Family Chapels we’ve seen firsthand how meaningful these small gestures are to families during one of the hardest days of their lives. When a procession moves through the city and cars pull to the side, it’s more than a tradition. It’s a community saying, “Your loved one mattered, and your grief is acknowledged.”